BY PROBLYN J. ALPHA
30yrs-old Kadie Marrah of Gbane Chiefdom, Kono District is reported to have dumped her newly born baby in a toilet pit at Mbaoma Village in Gbane Chiefdom, Kono District.
Report states that the woman in question went to see the nurse in charge of the Mbaoma Peripheral Health Units (PHU) and owing to the busy scheduled of the Nurse she told the pregnant woman by then to wait for her, nothing that whist waiting, Kadie Marrah became inpatient and decided to clandestinely visit the toilet where she later delivered the child and dumped her in the said toilet pit.
The report further that the nurse in charge of the aforementioned PHU whist moving around heard the cry of a baby and upon locating where the crying sound was coming from, she together with other people swiftly rescued the newly born baby boy and put him under medication.
Meanwhile, as the newly born baby boy who took less than an hour in the pit is undergoing intensive medical treatment. The woman in question who was later arrested and taken to the Tankoro Police Divisional Headquarters in Koidu city where she is helping the Police with investigation.
TOXIC WOMEN DESTROY GOOD MEN TOO
BY: HAJA HAWA KOROMA
A lot of toxic women destroy good men but we don’t often talk about them. The toxicity trait has been solely thrown on men as if they are the only toxic beings whereas so many women are queens of toxicity who silently destroy good men. And because nine out of ten men don’t discuss about these issues to friends or families, it forces them to go through these situations silently acting as if everything is alright.
Most women are forged in the fire of toxicity, some had inherit this trait from having to go through countless toxic relationships in ways that have erased their original identity and are left with all that hate and anger.
Some women tends to abuse a guy’s love and affection for her, because they are so toxic instead of appreciating the guys effort, what they do is complain, complain and hurt the guy in countless ways just because they that their actions will cause no consequences.
This is one of the reasons why it is advisable for a woman to heal properly after a failed toxic relationship before attempting to go into another as she may project all that negative energy into the relationship as that is what she has been used to for the longest time.
There was a guy who was approached by a lady through social media and they ended up getting married. Since the lady is abroad she made a way for the guy to travel abroad and meet her. When the guy gets there it was all roses and sunshine as expected until the honeymoon phase passes and reality strikes in.
Little did the guy know that this lady was so toxic. She started maltreating the guy in unimaginable ways. Locking him up in the house whilst she goes out, and when she gets home she only talks to the guy when she wants to sleep with him as if he was his prostitute and when the guy started working she collects all his payment and gives him what she wants to give him from his own salary. The guy was unable to do anything not even the basics for himself or his family.
She abuses the guy in more ways than one just because she was the one that took him overseas and because the guy had no papers at that time, and he was afraid to report her as he did not want to be deported for lack of papers. The guy had to go through this for few years until he couldn’t take it anymore, he went to the police and reported her not caring about his deportation as he preferred to be deported than to go through what that lady was putting him through every single day.
To summarize, he didn’t get deported, the police issued out a restraining order, they got divorce but that experience changed him forever as he has trust issues now. Ever since then he has been unable to engage in a real relationship and when he tries to he drives women away as he studies women like a degree.
One bad experience from a woman has destroyed him forever; this is what some men faces with women but most of them do not speak of it as they are afraid of judgmental comments from society and friends. So toxic women destroys good men too this is why the chain of toxicity flows in circles. As a society we must make ensure that men feel comfortable and safe to speak of these issues without fear of judgments or stereotypes. Let’s do better and be better.
