By: Haja Hawa Koroma
The topic for today’s readership is a sensitive and opinionated one but it is coming from a good place. This medium believes that everyone has their rights to do what they think is best for them; therefore there are no judgements here. So ladies, today’s readership is all about you.
In this modern day, a lot of ladies do all sorts of things for media attention. For instance, so many ladies engages in multiple relationships to get money for materialistic stuffs all in the name of following trends and keeping up to date of fashion wears. One thing about fashion, it constantly changes, meaning you will never get enough if you are that kind of person that follows fashion trends.
Don’t get me wrong. If you have the money and the means, you can wear whatever you can buy.
You can do whatever you want with your money. But the problem is girls are going through extreme lengths just to fit in with the ones that actually have the means to live that kind of lifestyle.
It makes absolutely no sense to imitate celebrity’s lifestyles, or a friend that has money, just because you don’t want to feel left out. If that friend/ celebrity holds designer bags and purses because they can afford them, the stuffs that they put in them are stuffs that regular bags can also contain. If they wear designer dresses, you can also wear regular dresses and still look cute.
The bottom line is, you don’t need all that to look good and presentable. You can look good, cute and presentable even on a low budget.
Again, I’m not judging anybody because everyone has their different reasons for doing the things they do. But don’t live a life you may regret later on just because of material things, cause material things don’t last and you will always put yourself under unnecessary pressure all in the name of maintaining that lifestyle and at the end of the day you might not have anything reasonable to show for it because those fancy stuffs you are doing different things to get, may become tasteless at some point.
If you really are that kind of person that loves fancy stuffs, make sure you work and find the money to buy them for yourself without using your body as a means to get them.
