By: Haja Hawa Koroma
Ladies let’s have a chat today about the men in our lives, yes guys you heard right, today’s publication is all about you. As a woman it is important to show your love and appreciation to the guy in your life frequently especially if that guy is doing all he can to please you and make you happy.
There’s no such thing as a perfect anything talk less of a relationship, but in order to establish a good and healthy relationship communication, love, respect, and loyalty should exist in that relationship amongst others. But every now and then, as lovers, what we most times need more than anything else is appreciation.
It makes us feel like we’re doing something right, and your boyfriend/husband is no different too. Your boyfriend/husband may play the tough guy or not be much of a talker, but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t have feelings. His exterior is just a mask hiding who he truly is because men are soft too, they just do a better job at hiding it. Every man wants attention and appreciation from their partners when they are doing well.
By expressing how you feel to him, you show him affection and love. After some time, he’ll start to express his feelings to you too. See how it works? Everyone wants to be loved and show love. Regardless of the fact that they always portray their masculinity figure, they sometimes want to be pampered like a baby too.
As a guy who’s spending a considerable amount of time pursuing every opportunity to please you, he’d be looking for every sign to know that he’s doing the right thing to please you. After all, at the beginning of a relationship, a guy tries pretty hard to impress a girl because he hopes that the girl will appreciate him enough to give him a chance.
So when your boyfriend/husband does something sweet for you, make sure you let him know how you feel. Let him see that he’s appreciated, show him affection and pamper him, that’ll also encourage him to do it again, to do more nice things for you because he would want to get that feeling from you because it feels nice. This will also help in boosting his ego as a man, because men see it as an accomplishment when they are able to take care of the woman they love well and please her with what she wants.
Randomly say sweet things to your man like, I feel so protected and safe when you’re around me.
There’s no guy in the world who can understand me better than you do / I ever feel like I need to hold back while talking to you.
Gosh, you look so sexy, and I can’t believe you are all mine.
The world seems so perfect when you hold me in your arms.
You’re the kind of guy every girl would dream of having.
I enjoy your company more than anyone else is in the whole world.
You always know how to make me smile even when I’m down.
There are so many sweet words to tell your man, much more than these. Saying these words to your man do not only boost his ego, but it makes him feel appreciated, loved and draws him closer to you. So, ladies, learn to talk politely to your man, be nice to him, pamper him with words and actions, a good man would appreciate you for these little gestures and would always try to make you feel appreciated as well.
