By: Haja Hawa Koroma
Imagine having the proper sexual control on your man or woman and being able to sexually arouse them in bed anytime you want. There is nothing hotter than that. If you know how to seduce your man or woman in bed, you will never have to settle for less ever. You will never have to ask your partner for the attention you want and you will always be able to rekindle the heat in your relationship, even your married life. Below are few ideas that you can use to seduce your partner in bed for a heated romance.
If you want your partner to know how sexy you are, there are ways other than text, make sure he sees you undress. When he is lying down in bed, watching TV or distracted, take him by surprise. Put on a seductive music and sway lightly on it, like you are dancing in yourself. Slowly unbutton your shirt and slip it from one shoulder and then another. Touch yourself over the neck and cleavage. You will have the attention of your man by now. Striptease him further the way you want but make sure you keep giving him that hot look in between.
For women use lacy lingerie to dress you up and seduce him. Like if you are getting ready for a party, put on that stunning lingerie and those high heels. Strut around sexily in them, put on your makeup (not too much) and let him drool over you. You can do that while undressing after the party as well. You will have him pouncing on you in no time. Don’t make this a routine so he won’t lose interest in the fun, do it once in a while when you feel it will be fun. Your married life will get better with good sex.
You might need to learn and master body language as a signal to let your partner know you are in the mood to have sex. Try and mirror some of your partner’s actions, it will seduce them and turns them on. But don’t mimic everything they do. Like if your man leans towards you, lean towards him as well with a passionate eye contact. Lick your lips as well. It will get him interested in you without a doubt. Or how your woman slowly undresses before you, do it to her as well as it will be fun for her and it will entice her.
While out at the dinner with friends sit beside him or right across him. Move your heel clawed feet up and down his calf under the table slowly and look in his eyes. Then slip off your heels and caress his legs with your bare feet. Tickle his ankles with your toes. If you are eating at home or a dark club, put you bare feet up in his lap. Either he will take you straight into the room, or he would be just waiting desperately to do that.
Speak softly into your partner’s ears, telling your partner how sexy they look in a particular dress or outfit, or style or simply whispering ‘I Love You’, will captivate them and sets them in the mood. And don’t stop there, flick the inside of their ears with the tip of your tongue and gently bite their earlobe. It will send the shivers down their spine for sure. Their mind will run wild, and won’t be able to keep their hands off you all through the evening.
While you are watching the TV on holiday or a romantic weekend at a resort, get up from the couch, sighing loudly, and tell your partner you are going for a little nap. Walk away casually removing your clothes one by one, look over your shoulder suggestively and smile. By the time you reach the bedroom, make sure you are naked and before that, make the bed looks tempting enough to seduce you partner for a heated encounter. When your partner sees you lying naked with your eyes closed on that bed, it will be a massive turn on for them. If he/she doesn’t get the signal, text them to come to the room.
When your partner is in the shower; unexpectedly join him there, and slowly soap his entire body giving special attention to unique body parts. Give your partner an elaborate wash and sensuous one too. Make it obvious to him there is more on your mind than just soaping him. He would drag you to bed right away.
When you are at a party or dinner, don’t wear your knickers. Whisper it in your partner’s ears; let him know you aren’t wearing anything underneath your dress. Or, just slip in the washroom, take off your knickers and discreetly slip it into the pocket of your man. He will be extremely excited but unable to do anything about that. He will be waiting to get his hands on you.
While you are enjoying a TV show or a movie, take them by surprise. Kiss and lick their fingertips, nuzzle their neck, lick under their ears and gently bite their lobes. For women, just sit on lap facing him, rub your crotch on his thighs or dry hump him while you kiss him deeply. And then get up and walk towards your room, looking back at him. He will follow you for sure.
When he is leaving for the office whisper in his ears about a hot evening, he might expect later. You can also leave a note in his wallet or send him a text message indicating the same. He will be more than excited to return home.
Tease Him With A Photo
Don’t send him a naked picture of you but more subtle teasing images and seduce him. Like the shots of your nipples from your shirt or a picture of how high up your skirt rides when you are at your desk. He will be imagining the rest instead of working.
Always the same routine can get very boring. So, keep adding variety even when you are in the act. Keep changing speed, intensity, position or pressure. It will not only keep your man interested, but he will also crave for more. Variety gets a man sexually aroused in bed easily,
Seduction is all about paying attention to someone else’s needs and moving forward accordingly. If you want to seduce your partner spend time in getting to know them and set an appropriate atmosphere, and move slowly while getting physical.
AMAZING FACTS
Concentrate all your thoughts upon the work in hand. The sun’s rays do not burn until brought to a focus.
Either you run the day or the day runs you.
Be a greater believer in luck, and you’ll find out that the harder You work the more You have of it
When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.
Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.
Setting goals is the first step in turning the invisible into the visible.
Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it.
It’s not about better time management. It’s about better life management.
